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  • It was 1982, and I was seventeen—carefree, bold, and utterly convinced that the future was bright. I remember walking into the local arcade with my pink polo collar flipped up and starched, my straight-leg jeans perfectly faded, and my loafers polished just enough to look effortlessly cool. A typical seventeen-year-old in the eighties, caught somewhere…

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  • Lately, I’ve been watching interviews with MAGA supporters, and whenever the question comes up—“Do you believe in the Constitution?”—the response is invariably, “Yes, I’m a constitutionalist.” Yet how can someone honestly claim that title while backing an ideology that not only betrays the very document meant to protect our freedoms but, in many cases, actively…

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  • NOW IS THE TIME FOR MONSTERS

    “This is how the end begins.” You’ve seen the beginning. My book, Glow pulled back the curtain on the darkness creeping at the edges of our world. But what comes next will shake you to your core. This Spring, my newest book Gorilla arrives. I can’t say too much yet—I’m still deep in writing, and…

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  • I’ve been reflecting a lot on spirituality and its connection to religion, especially as a gay man. For many queer individuals, religion can be a challenging topic, often leaving a bitter taste in our mouths. Throughout our lives, we have faced many moments of hostility from those who insist they hold the key to divine…

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  • Hate, a weapon wielded in the Trump era to strip away rights and dignity from numerous marginalized groups, seeping into the very essence of our society and eroding the bonds that bind us. As a gay man navigating these turbulent times, I have felt firsthand the weight of this malevolent force and its impact on…

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  • (I originally shared this in February 2024. My father passed away the previous October 2023. I had forgotten about it until tonight.) February 22, 2024 I wanted to share something with you. Most of you know my father was a true believer in the paranormal. He personally experienced the Screaming House firsthand. The last conversation…

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  • Adventure is a thrilling concept, isn’t it? It evokes images of daring escapades, unexpected twists, and the thrill of the unknown. When I stumbled upon a quote by Paulo Coelho, “If you think adventure is dangerous, try routine, it is lethal,” it got me thinking about how it reflects my own life. Let’s break it…

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  • The worst homophobia I have experienced in my life has been within the paranormal community. I have been threatened to be outed several times over the years, which I found amusing because anyone who truly knew me was aware that I came out at 29. I considered my sexuality a non-topic and something that was…

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  • I used to believe I could change the world. There was a time when I carried that conviction like a torch, its flame burning so brightly it lit up every corner of my soul. I was sure of it—so sure—that through kindness and understanding, through love and compassion, I could make a difference. I believed…

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  • Let me take you on a brief journey through the fascinating history of Querétaro, a city whose story spans from its colonial beginnings to its current status as a thriving metropolis. It began in 1534 when D. Juan Sánchez de Alaníz designed the city’s layout. Just a few years later, in 1540, the Great Convent…

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