When it comes to the unknown or the paranormal, I am not chasing answers. I am trying to understand what we are actually dealing with.
I think the desire for answers is natural. We all want them. But with something like the paranormal, what you are more likely to encounter are ideas, patterns, and possibilities, not a clear “this is what it is.” You have to prepare yourself for that and accept it. If you go in demanding certainty, you will either force conclusions or miss what is actually happening.
Years of research and experience have taught me that labels often end the conversation instead of deepening it. The moment we decide what something is, we stop listening to what it might be.
Humility matters here. Not because we lack intelligence, but because this subject asks us to slow down, pay attention, and stay open. That is where understanding begins.
Say these three words with me.
I don’t know.

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