Steven LaChance Blog

“Tell me about what you believe. Let’s have a conversation. We could both learn something from each other.”

When it comes to the paranormal, that simple invitation might be the spark for a deep, meaningful exchange between two people who see the world very differently. On one side, there are the believers—those who’ve had unexplainable experiences and accept that not everything can be measured or understood by science. On the other, the skeptics—those who rely on logic, evidence, and reason, often dismissing paranormal claims as misinterpretations, coincidences, or even hoaxes. But what if the truth really lies somewhere in the middle? What if the most honest conversation happens when both sides meet halfway?

Let’s face it—we’re all a little skeptical at times. It’s natural to question things and hesitate before fully believing in something we can’t see, touch, or measure. In the realm of the paranormal, that skepticism pushes us to dig deeper, search for evidence, and truly understand our experiences before jumping to conclusions. But this doesn’t mean we should automatically dismiss or invalidate someone else’s personal, often mysterious experiences.

Believing in the paranormal isn’t about taking everything at face value, nor is it about having all the answers or proving something beyond doubt. It’s about embracing the possibility that not every mystery has a clear explanation—and sometimes, that’s perfectly okay. The beauty of belief might simply be in accepting that there are things in this world that lie beyond our current understanding.

So, why not find a middle ground?

Instead of drawing a strict line between skepticism and belief, imagine approaching the paranormal with a mindset that welcomes both. The skeptic offers a valuable perspective with logic, reason, and a quest for tangible proof, while the believer brings an openness to experiences and ideas that defy easy explanation. These viewpoints don’t have to clash; they can actually complement each other. One can question while the other wonders, and together they might discover new ways to explore the unknown.

After all, none of us has absolute certainty about anything. The very nature of the paranormal is that it’s unexplained. If it were fully explainable, it wouldn’t be paranormal at all. Instead, it leaves us with more questions than answers—a fact that only adds to its fascination. And just because something can’t be immediately explained doesn’t mean it isn’t worth exploring.

This is where that middle ground really shines. Skepticism and belief can coexist, each adding depth to our understanding. By sharing experiences, challenging one another’s views, and staying open to new possibilities, we might just uncover more than we ever could alone. Perhaps the paranormal isn’t about proving one side right or wrong—it’s about remaining curious, asking the big questions, and recognizing that sometimes the truth lies somewhere in between.